Honest.
Warm.
Direct.
Chechi's take on love, sex, and everything in between.
You're not confused — a situationship is designed to confuse you
Why the 'almost relationship' has become the most emotionally expensive arrangement in modern dating, and how to find your way out.
7 things people dismiss in early dating that aren't actually small
Not every red flag is dramatic. Some of the most important signals arrive quietly — and we talk ourselves out of noticing them.
What 'I'm not ready for a relationship' actually means (a translation)
Chechi's honest guide to decoding the phrases that keep you in place while someone figures out if they want you.
Ask Chechi: Can I actually trust someone who lied to me once?
Chechi answers a reader's question about whether trust can rebuild after a betrayal — and what rebuilding actually looks like vs. just hoping.
Consent doesn't expire when you say yes once
Why consent in long-term relationships is ongoing, not a one-time agreement — and how to talk about it without making it weird.
Sometimes love isn't enough — and that's one of the harder truths
Loving someone deeply and knowing the relationship isn't right for you aren't mutually exclusive. Chechi on the grief of the necessary ending.